The moment when you realize you've been playing yourself short, you've been operating on a low level.... in that same moment you realize I can do better I can be more organized I can eat better focus more I can stop complaining and start solving I can stop waiting and start going..I can listen more and talk less I can be all the things I've been dreaming of...now plug your ears when the naysayers talk as soon as gossip starts turn around and walk...stop worrying about how the next man got on...focus on your situation and turn BAD GIRLS CLUB OFF (or any other reality show) use your time wisely because its not guaranteed... Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do more then just eat sleep and breath...you have given every excuse in the book why you can't succeed...I'm a single mom I'm a single dad...they all hating on me!!! Awwww stop for a minute and assess your situation yeah it's not fair and yeah your mind and body are aching...but you can do better you can be more then who you see...everyone's road is tough I know a lot have it harder then me...but I believe in you I just hope you would too i know a lot of you from way back when...I see updates and I'm like I wish they remembered WHEN!!...when they were confident before the world stepped in...when they lead groups and clicks from freshman year until the very end...BSU and captains of sports teams...we all have made mistakes...I get it.. now move on...figure out your next steps instead of talking about the old ones...make bold moves but always map them out...you can't wait for a friend to come along and say "ill help you figure it out" ...help yourself my friends that power is hidden within and when you start to do that confidence kicks in and when that confidence kicks in you'll understand what I'm saying...take you're time and figure it out and put the excuses to bed....I wish you all well....
~Ernest Ivory
